People are without power, freezing cold, hungry, homeless and at least 42 people have died because of a massive ice storm that passed through much of “flyover country” earlier this week. We got a taste of that wicked weather here where just-a-regular-guy and family hang out and I can’t imagine how bad it was in the areas that really got hammered. So where is Obama? Hors d’œuvres — chicken curry, wagyu steak — will be served in addition to drinks at a White House party thrown by the new president…